I spent nearly $40,000 at seminars. At these seminars, the speaker would say people who are motivated enough will succeed and people who fail have only themselves to blame. I am a strong believer of accountability and believed them absolutely. I purchased their classes and failed, repeatedly. Now I understand there are multiple aspects to change a person’s behavior, not only personal motivation. No wonder seminars have such a tiny success rate! I recently read Influencer which goes into depth, with scientific studies and examples from society and history, explaining the behavior of change, and I thank the Lord for the leaders I have who are aware of this priceless knowledge.